Mother, house and home; family unit, the “nesting” urge, busyness; support, security; the Homeland; the Goddess.
The Thirteenth Letter of the Alphabet. Energy Frequency No. 13. (including matrix suggestions and my own musings) Restructures the DNA through the non-physical morphogenic fields surrounding living creatures, including our inherited (and karmic) DNA…which can also be changed with thought and intention. (How this relates to “M,” the 13th Letter of the alphabet, will be discussed under “Letter-Number Table 4.“- 1+3=4. on the Header Menu Bar – yet to be added.)
“M” – learning through close relationships, family and home.
Many “M’s” search for the ideal mate in order to settle down and live happily ever after!
These “M’s” fall into four groups:
1) the eternal searcher.
2) the ideally mated.
3) the stoically mated (holding a home and a marriage together, but with things far from perfect.)
4) the “I don’t want to ever be mated!” – or…..”never mated again!”
Most “M’s” have strong family bonds and prefer to work in the home at a residence-based business. “M’s” tend to chafe at inactivity and hate to waste time; they want to keep very busy and become miserable unless they’re constantly working at something…(sound like Martha Stewart to you?) – or they put up with work they hate (fearing change) just to keep the home and family together.
Many “M’s” nurture themselves by nurturing others – this can be negative and controlling, or enabling and selfless. Like “O,” letter “M” has a food-thing lurking in the background and can also emotionally drain (feed upon) the unsuspecting…it’s called the “vampire” aspect! Ever felt drained and exhausted after spending time with a needy “M” or “O” person??
Other “M’s” feel more secure when they collect things – like money and possessions! Billionaire Malcolm Forbes understood the principles of collecting, but unlike most of the very rich, he also knew how to really enjoy his wealth!
In a general sense, “M” represents the basic cultural unit of a society–the family, and how it sustains or destroys itself. Karl Marx with his radical philosophy of communism redefined the interactions of a culture and ultimately affected billions of families; early anthropologist Margaret Mead’s interest in “the family unit” extended to the study of (the then) unspoiled Polynesian cultures; writer-columnist Erma Bombeck (an “M” in both names) made us laugh at the funny side of family life and Martha Stewart regardless of her short stint in prison, still presides in the media as the American Guru of housekeeping.
The presence of “M” in a name denotes a key interaction with the mother….she may be a best friend–or a worst enemy! In either case, there are major lessons within the relationship. Occasionally an “M” child takes over the role of ‘mothering’ an elderly parent (most frequently the mother), to the extent of having the parent live-in with them indefinitely. For the balanced “M,” this live-in, caring service becomes a willing act of love, but when unbalanced, the same filial duty is highly resented and complained about!
Sans an aged or ailing parent to care for (a natural part of family life in more ‘primitive’ cultures), “M’s” tend to collect a ménage of people not necessarily blood related–and/or animals, as part of their home or extended family. As an example: actress Mia Farrow (the epitome of home and dedicated motherhood) cared for ten children, some her own, the rest adopted….and not all of her lessons in “mothering” have been easy ones!! Vulnerable “M’s” need constant emotional support from a wide circle of friends.
Balanced “M:” emotionally self sufficient; efficient; very adaptable yet nurturing; love to make others feel comfortable and welcome; can easily create a home (or feel at home) anywhere…regardless of what’s going on; never bored, can always find something to interest, busy and absorb them.
Unbalanced “M:” fussy. fastidious, over-meticulous; emotionally needy; a compelling quest for the ideal love may suffocate and drive away would-be mates – especially if the searcher felt rejected or abandoned as a child (the search is really for the denied and unattainable perfect mother!).
Weak “M’s:” unwilling or incapable of providing their own ‘nests;’ they learn how to “camp” in other people’s homes for free–where they keep very busy (like good “M’s”) making themselves useful to the hosts, but essentially, they’re only pervasive parasites!
When the foundation of a loving mother and supportive childhood has been denied, “M’s” reactions can become neurotic to sociopathic; in their rage, they turn against accepted family values and lay waste that which they never received. These misfits find their “clan” within the ranks of gangs, other criminals, or form their own destructive anti-social groups e.g. the Mafia. They reverse the nurturing aspect of “M ” by destroying members of family units, pillaging homes, targeting public institutions and committing antisocial acts against women in particular and society in general – it’s their way of ‘punishing’ the aberrant real mother along with the rejected community. These personality types run the gamut of the emotionally needy to the psychopathically criminal all deviants because of their “M” problems.
Classic example: Charles Manson, society-hating, Californian commune leader in the late 60′s with a ‘family’ of devoted female followers who master-minded the Tate -LaBianca murders.
When “M” is in YOUR NAME: it’s how you relate(ed) to your mother – it’s how you find the perfect mate and create your own ideal home/family/business.
SUMMARY: mother, home, family, mate, the earth – or reviling and destroying same.
Famous “M” names: meticulous, fastidious and busy; working for – (or from), the home, home-land, family-tribe…or repressing/suppressing home and people; becoming a ‘household word’ or institution; the mother or Earth-Mother-Goddess/Gaia.
Maria Montessori: Italian M.D., educator, world lecturer; developed innovative schooling system at turn of Century–the doctrine of guided freedom–allowing children to release their natural individuality; Montessori private schools are now world-wide; Edward R. Murrow: famous 50′s T.V. News and broadcast journalist, became a household institution and the ‘conscience of America’ with his See it Now documentaries and Person to Person interviews; Golda Mier (Myerson): both tender and tough, the “Mother of Israel;” was Israel’s first female Prime Minister in 1969; Nelson Mandela: first South African black Prime Minister; inspiring, determined, courageous, dedicated to his people, lead a 28 year campaign against Dutch rule from his prison cell; Guglielmo Marconi: Italian physicist, electrical engineer; first to transmit long range radio signals in 1905 leading to the development of radio – which definitely became a household word!; Rev. Martin Luther King Jr: dedicated, black civil rights activist; peacefully demonstrated for the rights of his people and their equal place in America; Ferdinand Marcos: unpopular president of Philippines from 1965-86; declared martial law, put down all opposition; Benito Mussolini: suppressive Fascist dictator of Italy during 2nd World War; Marilyn Monroe: glamorous U.S. blonde actress-singer from the 50′s and early 60′s, everyman’s ideal Pin-up girl and unattainable Goddess; Madonna: highly paid U.S. singer, actress, producer – a more brazen and hardened Goddess for the 80′s and 90′s – became a mother at 38, played Eva Peron in Evita.
Special “M” Note: Dag (Hjalmar) Hammarskjold: Swedish Secretary General of United Nations (1953-61), with three “M’s” in name -concerned for the peace of the whole world; posthumously awarded Nobel Peace Prize.